Aidan & David
A Celebration of our Marriage
09.26.26
it’s gonna be a party!
Dress Code: Cocktail Attire
The Vibe: Polished, festive, and fun
What to Wear: Cocktail dresses, dressy jumpsuits, midi/maxi dresses, a suit/jacket with dress slacks. Ties optional.
Personal Style: Highly encouraged! Glam and bold looks are all welcome.
Please Avoid: Jeans, t-shirts, and casual sneakers.
program
Penthouse 45
432 W 45th St.
New York, NY 10036
Map
4PM:
Cocktail Hour & Bites
5PM:
Gather
Ice-breaker so you can get to know your neighbors, vocal warm-ups
Messy first run through of the song “Indestructible” by Robyn
Rehearsal in small groups, more coaching of the arrangement by Matt Goldstein of Gaia Music Collective
6PM
Community blessings and vows by the grooms set to the music of Indestructible.
A final sing through (or two) with everyone
6:30PM
Music by special guest DJ and friend of the grooms, Mannie Petty
Food & Drink
7PM
Toasts
9PM
Sweets
10PM
Move to VERS
Music by special guest and friend of the grooms, DJ E.N
The day is almost here! We want to share some important wedding info:
here is the quick summary:
Surprise! You’re going to be singing in a group choir.
This group choir looks and sounds like this
You will need to pick a part and learn it (below)
You’re not alone, there will be drinks (look at the program)
Then food
Then dancing
Then VERS
We want a wedding celebration that isn't just sitting in a row of chairs watching a ceremony. We want to bring everyone together and generate something together that we will always remember. To do this, we commissioned the brilliantly talented Matt Goldstein, of Gaia Music Collective, to create a special arrangement of a song meaningful to us.
Gaia Music Collective puts on “group sings” all over NYC. Take a listen to Natasha Bedingfield’s “Unwritten” (watch for Aidan’s special cameo appearance) or Seasons of Love from the musical Rent. Matt’s events are low pressure, high fun events that emphasize community and the joy of creating.
For our celebration, we asked Matt to create an original choral arrangement of a song meaningful to us: Robyn’s “Indestructible”.
WHAT IS A MUSICAL CEREMONY?
From Matt: This ceremony is centered around a piece of music that is deeply special to our two grooms: Robyn’s “Indestructible,” a bold, brave anthem of love.
The idea is this: what if we got together, learned harmonies to this song, stood in a big circle, and surrounded Aidan & David with our voices, celebrating them and their union with communal song?
This experience is designed to be accessible to folks of all musical abilities - no musical experience is needed! We can create a magical sound with all of our voices together. That’s the magic of the choir - together, we can be stronger than any of us are on our own. And don’t worry - if participating in a group singing moment isn’t your jam, you are welcome to simply watch & bear witness.
HOW TO PICK A PART:
First, listen to the DEMO to get a sense of how all the parts come together.
Then, listen to the VOICE PARTS. The parts are split from highest to lowest (SOPRANO, ALTO, TENOR, BASS). Pick whichever part feels comfy to you! If you’re not sure which part to learn, give each of them a listen and try singing along to see what feels best. Aidan is here to help! Aidan is literally a music director and voice teacher and does this for a living - PLEASE reach out to him with any questions! Not sure what part to sing? Not sure how to practice? Aidan is totally here for you!
WORDS AND MUSIC:
Here are the WORDS to follow along.
For those more advanced songstresses, here is the SHEET MUSIC.
LEARNING THE SONG
Matt encourages you to come into this gathering as familiar with your part as you are able, so that we can spend our limited time together showering the grooms with musical love. There’s no need to stress over it or “get it perfect.” Our focus here is on joy, community, and celebration, and we welcome the human messiness of some wrong notes. It’s easier to sing in person, when the rest of our part-buddies are singing the part with us (and prosecco, also, helps).
From Matt: Our primary intention here is to offer Aidan & David our love by giving it our best shot.
Please feel free to reach out to me at mattgoldsteinmusic@gmail.com with any questions. Looking forward to celebrating with you all soon!
Travel &Stay
We recommend the following two hotels located in midtown manhattan. We do not have block bookings with these hotels, we found prices are better direct on expedia when you book yourself:
M Social Times Square
M Social Hotel New York Times Square is a vibrant 4-star lifestyle hotel located at 226 West 52nd Street, New York, NY 10019 in the heart of Manhattan’s Theater District. It features scenic outdoor terrace spaces, modern accommodations, and prominent views of Times Square.
Row Hotel
ROW NYC offers a modern, serene stay right in the heart of Manhattan's Times Square Theater District at 700 8th Ave and 43rd Street. the hotel features skyline or river views, and day-to-night cafe Percy All Day. With a rich legacy dating back to 1928, it seamlessly blends historic scale with contemporary convenience.
Registry
A Note on the Registry…
Thank you so much for thinking of us and celebrating with us! Having you join us in New York City is truly the greatest gift, so please don’t feel any obligation to do more.
If you would still like to give a gift, we’ve included a few items on our registry. Contributions toward gift cards to West Elm, CB2, or Amazon would also mean the world to us as we furnish our home for this next wonderful chapter.
Most of all, we’re simply grateful to share this special day with the people we love. We can’t wait to see you!
Cb2
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